Family Fall Feedback – Friday, October 31, 2025
DLFF Newsletter – November 2025
Family Fall Feedback
Last week, Rev. Eileen and I hosted a virtual gathering for parents to hear how they are doing and how they are engaging in and feeling about our faith community. They were open and honest and brave to share with us, which is what we hoped for. I wish to share some of this with you here.
Parents expressed overwhelmingly their joy at how much they and their children have been embraced, welcomed, and included. Having childcare available on Sunday mornings for choir rehearsal and worship has made a huge difference. The Nest has certainly been a big part of those with younger children to feel at home. And while it was acknowledged that it can get a bit noisy and parents worry about this, they appreciate that their little ones can make some noise without getting “shushed” and glared at. We also shared some ideas on ways we can help little ones – and parents – learn when to be quieter and when it’s okay to be a little noisy in worship. After all, how can we expect our youngest to grow up to be practicing UUs if we don’t show them how?
Another thing that parents appreciate is how we maintain many of our traditions, such as Ornament Sunday and the rummage sale. Creating community was another major factor, with the restarting of the youth group, Picnics in the Park, Our Whole Lives (OWL) sex ed program, and of course, snacks. Food is always good!
We then had a conversation about what they need more from UCE. The overall arch of their responses was to make more connections – for the parents and especially between generations. Some ideas shared were to have childcare available for things such as a parents’ night out and for a parents’-only program or activity, having the older youth help the younger ones and the young adults help with the youth, and having young people be a pen pal with an older adult who isn’t able to attend worship in person.
Much more was shared – too much to write about here. Rev. Eileen and I would love to hear from others too. You can do so in this Family Fall Feedback form. We will keep you posted on where this takes us.
In the meantime, our last Family Friday had 27 people of all ages gather to help weed one of the gardens and then enjoy a campfire and s’mores. Now that the weather is getting colder, our gatherings will be indoors. On November 7 we will have a family game night. Bring a snack and/or beverage to share and a favorite game. Looking at December, we will have our annual Cocoa, Carols, and Community on the 5th. We’ll wrap gifts for the mitten tree and then enjoy hot cocoa and sing holiday favorites.
My plan is to offer the Our Whole Lives (OWL) sex ed program for youth in 7th-9th grades beginning in January. Parents of youth should have gotten an email about this. If not, please let me know and I will send you the information. I am also hoping to offer the young adult OWL program this year. You older adults might get your turn in 2027!
For adults, Dr. Emma Farrell continues their series on Artificial Intelligence, which will be in person and on Zoom on November 5. And on November 19, join me for Create Your UU Elevator Speech, where you will develop an elevator speech about your UU faith. It is called an “elevator speech” because on an elevator ride when someone asks you, “What is Unitarian Universalism?” you only have a short time to make a meaningful statement.
Lastly, there are a couple of invitations from other organizations in Evanston to join in on: Fall Fire Pit with the Evanston Friends Meeting on November 16, and a story time at the Gichigamiin Indigenous Nations Museum. See the blurbs elsewhere in the newsletter for the details.
As always, we continue to build community within UCE and beyond.
In Gratitude,
Kathy