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Taking Time – Friday, July 28, 2025

Taking Time

Taking Time

I love my job. It has such a wide variety of tasks and challenges, I never get bored. Frustrated, perhaps, but never bored. There are many aspects to being a religious educator that uses both the left and right sides of my brain, such as creativity, art, and music, thinking outside of the box, budgeting, organizing, relationship-building. There is the physical aspect – logging many steps and stairs on my pedometer, moving furniture and supplies, late nights and overnights. And then there is the emotional side, the times when someone is hurt, angry, sad, anxious, and they need a compassionate ear or help working out a conflict. I love my job. This reminds me of a song I like, Vacation by Dirty Heads. Take a listen here, and see if you agree. “Ay, ay aye, I’m on vacation every single day because I love my occupation!”

Well, maybe that’s not entirely true, because vacations away from work – as much as I love my job – are important. A change of pace helps to rejuvenate the body and brain. Time away from a computer is especially important these days.

My husband, Todd, and I got to spend 18 days on our first trip overseas to the United Kingdom. We crammed a lot into our time but made sure every few days was a “light” one. We met so many people, including Morgan Wood, who is currently playing Eliza Schuyler in Hamilton on Broadway, while on a Winnie-the-Pooh tour – yes, you read that correctly. We traveled to Pooh Corner for lunch and then Ashdown Forest, which became the Hundred Acre Wood in the books by A. A. Milne.

I won’t bore you with all the details of where we went and things we saw and did here, but I’d be happy to share more in person when I see you. I’m so grateful to love my occupation and job, and to have the ability to take time off for rejuvenation.

Now I am getting back into the workday routine and planning for the coming church year. But to keep the feeling of being on vacation alive, we have a couple of events coming up that you might enjoy. 

This Sunday is Beach Day at Lighthouse Beach in Evanston from 12-3p. Bring a picnic lunch and your beach toys for some fun in the sun! Information on passes can be found here. In case of rain or storms, our backup date is August 10.

On August 5, join the Family Ministry Team at Sketchbook Brewing in Skokie from 6-8p. They have a wonderful beer garden as well as indoor seating with all kinds of games to entertain kids and adults. Snacks are available for purchase and you can bring your own food in.

I hope you have been able to take time this summer too, and find yourself rejuvenated for a new church year!

In Faith,

Kathy

 

Taking Time – Friday, July 28, 20252025-07-16T17:03:34+00:00

Sunday, July 20, 2025

Exploring AI Part 2: The Soul in the Machine

 Artificial intelligence is rapidly reshaping our world, and raising big questions about what it means to be human. Who is creating these technologies, and whose values are encoded within them? What might AI reflect back to us about ourselves, and how do we stay rooted in compassion, discernment, and care amid the noise?

Join us as we explore the spiritual dimensions of this technological moment. Together we’ll reflect on what it means to stay truly human in an age of machines.

Dr. Emma Farrell, ministerial intern, leads this service with Robb Geiger, Worship Associate. Gregory Shifrin shares his talents on piano, and Chester Beck appears as guest soloist.

Today’s offering will be shared with Open Communities, which works to eradicate housing discrimination and unjust practices that perpetuate segregation and inequity.

Upcoming Services

July 27 – Disability Pride & the Evolution of Community Belonging – Rev. Susan (Masks Required)

August 3 – Exploring AI (Pt. 3) – Dr. Emma

August 10 – Wendy Herman’s Spiritual Journey

Sunday, July 20, 20252025-07-14T18:46:37+00:00

Update from Susan – Friday, July 11, 2025

Hi Friends, 

I am so grateful for you and this faith community that makes it possible for us to continue to expand and hone what being a welcoming community means.  

I am grateful for how smoothly our first mask-required Sunday service went on June 22nd. People who didn’t know it was a mask-required Sunday or forgot their masks at home, were able to pick up a mask from the Welcome Center, which is the kiosk with the “Welcome, we’re so glad you are here!” sign located in the lobby. During Kinship Time, folks headed outside to sit at the tables and chairs to eat unmasked. Congregants who haven’t been able to join us due to exposure concerns, attended or emailed me that they will be at our upcoming mask-required services on July 27 and August 17. I look forward to seeing you then! 

I am grateful for the new benches and mulch under the great tree in the South Lawn that is part of our new playscape. Adam took the photo of me on Wednesday morning writing this. After the heat of last week, I am grateful for a warm, sunny but not too hot, day in which to work outside. 

I am grateful for Adam Gough, Steven Eason, Tori Foreman, and Vickie Doebele, our amazing staff who worked daily with Red Cross volunteers while we were a Temporary Disaster Relief Shelter Site from June 10th – July 3rd 

Through connections Adam made with the City of Evanston Fire Department while attending the City of Evanston’s Emergency Preparedness Fair last year, we were connected with the Red Cross and asked to be a Temporary Disaster Relief Shelter Site. In mid-June, we were called upon to host a group of people displaced from their apartments after an apartment fire led to the entire apartment building being condemned. Around 60 people were displaced and we hosted twenty-four people from seven households. Sleeping on cots in rooms 8, 9, 10, 12, and 13; eating donated meals in the café area during the week and room 5 on Sundays; and playing in our newly play-scaped South Lawn, our guests shared how comfortable and welcome they felt in our space. They had to shower at the YWCA and try to maintain their normal work schedule while looking for new housing.  

Two Red Cross volunteers were required to be on-site at all times. The volunteers I spent time with were interesting, solution-oriented, and a delight to get to know. This was our first-time hosting Red Cross guests and it went smoothly enough that, if we are able, we will act as a Temporary Disaster Relief Shelter Site again in the future. I appreciate not only the words of support and encouragement the staff received after the email blast to members about welcoming our Red Cross guests and volunteers, but also how you made the Red Cross guests and volunteers feel when you engaged with them during their stay. You are full of compassion and generosity, and I am grateful to have experienced those in action. 

One of my spiritual practices is to honor or name one person or thing that I am grateful for each evening before going to sleep. Sometimes I do this in prayer, making time to visualize what I am grateful for in my mind’s eye and really honoring why I have gratitude for this person or thing; and sometimes all I can manage is a brief acknowledgment in which I simply name what I am grateful for and go to bed.  

I encourage you to try it once or even once a day for a while. Maybe the evening isn’t a good time for you, maybe at your lunch break or when you awake. And, if it doesn’t make you feel better, that’s okay. Try something else. The important thing in this moment in our country’s history is to keep trying to find something that gives you a pause in the day and movement toward calm, and maybe toward happiness. If you are feeling overwhelmed by what is happening in your life or in the news, please make time to take care of yourself. If you need some support, please fill out a Request for Care form or email me or Rev. Eileen.  

Thank you for continuing to show up in all the complicated relational and logistical ways needed to care for each other, our faith community, our neighbors, and the stranger on the way. 

 

Gratefully Yours, 

Rev. Susan 

Update from Susan – Friday, July 11, 20252025-07-09T18:41:53+00:00

Sunday, July 13, 2025

On Humility

 If hubris will be the downfall of humanity, can humility save us? Exploring the imperative of living in a world that needs us to live our values boldly, while knowing no one, alone, is enough. Rev. Eileen leads this service with Sarah Vanderwicken as Worship Associate. Gregory Shifrin enriches our service with his musical talents.

Today’s offering will be shared with Open Communities, which works to eradicate housing discrimination and unjust practices that perpetuate segregation and inequity. 

Upcoming Services

July 20 – Exploring AI (Pt. 2) – Dr. Emma

July 27 – Disability Pride & the Evolution of Community Belonging – Rev. Susan (Masks Required)

August 3 – Exploring AI (Pt. 3) – Dr. Emma

August 10 – Wendy Herman’s Spiritual Journey 

Sunday, July 13, 20252025-07-06T15:35:56+00:00

Sunday, July 6, 2025

Seeking Refuge

In honor of World Refugee Day (June 20th) we are exploring the national, Unitarian Universalist and our congregation’s history of supporting people needing refuge and how we can engage in this life saving work today. Rev. Eileen leads the service with members of the Immigrant Solidarity Team – Janelle Brittain, Jeanne Kerl, Anne Sullivan, and Maggie Wilson. Melissa Briody will be the hymn leader and Ken Smith is our guest pianist this morning.

This week’s offering will be shared with Open Communities, whose mission is to eradicate housing discrimination and unjust practices that perpetuate segregation and inequity. We foster thriving, inclusive communities through fair housing enforcement, housing counseling, education, outreach, and advocacy.

Upcoming Services

July 13 – On Humility – Rev. Eileen

July 20 – Exploring AI (Pt. 2) – Dr. Emma

July 27 – Disability Pride & the Evolution of Community Belonging – Rev. Susan (Masks Required)

August 3 – Exploring AI (Pt. 3) – Dr. Emma

Sunday, July 6, 20252025-07-02T20:51:04+00:00

6/27/2025 UPDATE FROM THE BOARD OF TRUSTEES written by Joe Romeo

After more than eight years on the UCE Board, on June 12, I attended my last Board meeting. Here are some of the important things that I remember having happened in that time, beginning a little before my arrival in 2016. Perhaps they will bring back some good memories, or maybe you might learn of something in our recent past, before you joined us.

2015-2018:  After Bret Lortie, our minister at the time, had encouraged the Board to adopt Policy Governance, the Board studied how to properly do that and worked on its proper and complete implementation.

2018:  We approved a revision of our policies and by-laws (including term limits for Board Members).

2018:  Bret left to become a minister in the Air Force, prompting UCE to enter an interim ministry – with Rev. Greg who left in May of 2019. At that time Eileen was asked to become Acting Senior Minister and Rev. Karen Gustafson came to lead the interim work with us for nearly two years, until June of 2021.

2019-2021:  Rev. Karen led us through an important period of interim work, during which we examined our values and determined what we would most value in our senior minister.

2020:  Covid 19 brought us to an abrupt reconfiguration of how we interact with the community and celebrate our spirituality. Zoom became ubiquitous, and Adam became invaluable. YouTube services allowed us to enjoy many of our favorite aspects of services and Zoom allowed us to continue to conduct social justice efforts and personal and spiritual support activities.

2020: Susan Frances was hired and has provided considerable guidance and assistance, especially with Social Justice activities.

January 2021:  After serious and extensive considerations and thorough our interim work, the Ministerial Search Committee led the congregation through the process of calling Rev. Eileen to be our Settled Senior Minister. The decision was nearly unanimous.

2020 – 2021:  The Board commissioned the Endowment Task Force. Following an eighteen month process the congregation adopted its recommendations for allocating funds. The fund now has assets totaling nearly $2 million and allows us to do a lot of valuable work each year.

2020 – 25:  The Board commissioned the Anti-Oppression Task Force which has helped the congregation understand itself better, commit further to the necessary work of dismantling racism within, among, and beyond our congregation, and form more genuine and meaningful relationships with diverse community partners.

2016 – 2025:  We have considered the name “Unitarian Church of Evanston” and whether that name is helpful or accurate. This has led the Board to recommend the formation of a Task Force to propose a new name to be presented to the congregation for its consideration.

2019 – 25: Kathy Underwood has overseen the development of an increasingly vibrant Lifespan Faith Formation  program.

It is my observation that UCE has grown tremendously over the last eight years, and we are a more effective, happier, and more welcoming community.

I hope that you get a chance to take a minute to talk to someone who has been a part of UCE for a while about how things have changed in their time.

And we have been led by the presidents listed below:

Barbara Ghoshal, Janelle Brittain, Martha Holman, Jessica Tommelle-Presto, Joe Romeo, Carla Williams (2 terms!), Elaine Siegel, Hoa Voscott (incoming)

Joe Romeo
6/27/2025 UPDATE FROM THE BOARD OF TRUSTEES written by Joe Romeo2025-06-25T19:18:48+00:00
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