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From Rev. Susan Frances: January 22, 2021

Dear Friends,

Have you heard of the 8th PrincipleIt is a proposed new Principle that is a call to action and accountability to dismantle racism and other oppressions. 

The following language for an 8th Principle was proposed at the 2017 General Assembly with an invitation for congregations to discuss it, adopt it, and act to live it: 

     “We, the member congregations of the Unitarian Universalist Association, covenant to affirm and promote:

     Journeying toward spiritual wholeness by working to build a diverse multicultural Beloved Community by our actions that accountably dismantle racism and other oppressions in ourselves and in our institutions.”

Why are we talking about a new principle that directly addresses the need to dismantle racism and other oppressions? Because until we are all free, we are none of us free. These words written by Emma Lazarus, an activist for Jewish causes in the 19th century, have been echoed by Maya Angelou and Janelle Monae, Black women of the 20th and 21st centuries. While these words have been written and spoken by women from marginalized communities, the reality is that as a white person, these words are true for me as well. As a white person, I am intimately aware that until Black, Indigenous, and People of Color have equality in housing, education, and job opportunities, have security from police and law enforcement, have the respect of government officials, have all the privileges that I enjoy as a white person, that I too am trapped in a society of collusion and fear. 

The call to dismantle racism and other oppressions is not new. And that is one of the problems. As a predominately white congregation and religious movement, we have been able to be comfortable with slow progress. We have been able to be comfortable with the heady promises that our 7 Principles give us and the world. Unlike our current 7 Principles, the 8th Principle is an explicit call to action. While we draw upon the other Principles in our activism, they have not been sufficient to dismantle white supremacy culture within our congregations, our UU movement, or our society 

It is again time to renew our commitment to action, knowing that action takes many forms. I know that UCE is engaged in anti-racism and anti-oppression work, from having a Black Lives Matter sign along Ridge Avenue to the active Racial Equity Action Leadership Team to the Board holding monthly discussion groups based on the Commission of Institutional Change’s Widening the Circle of Concern report to the Social Justice Council just this year revising its process for choosing the plate share program recipients to account for their impact on dismantling white supremacy and addressing racism. And yet, there is more to do. 

In adopting the 8th Principle, we, as individual members of UCE, are agreeing to review our interactions with each other, our policies for staff and rental agreements, our budget, and our ongoing social action efforts through the lens of “working to build a diverse multicultural Beloved Community by our actions that accountably dismantle racism and other oppressions in ourselves and our institutions.” While it is vital that we continue our work beyond the walls of UCE by supporting Black led organizations and Black owned businesses and advocating for legal and institutional reforms, it is also important that we do more work internally. 

Here are a few ways we engage in action and practice accountability for our actions, internally within ourselves and within UCE: 

  • Actively understanding our implicit biases 
  • Pausing to think before we speak or post; words matter 
  • Choosing where we and our congregation spend money 
  • Reviewing and revising policies and processes within our congregation so that we are able to hold each other accountable and in continued relationship as we dismantle white supremacy culture 
  • Calling each other back into covenant when the impact of something is harmful, regardless of intent, so we may apologize, make amends, and do better in the future 

When we are actively engaged in anti-oppression and anti-racism work, there will be disagreements, disappointments, and hard conversations. We are a congregation made up of individuals with numerous ideas about how to proceed in this work – not all white congregants or all black congregants or all people of color congregants will agree with each other. We are a group of diverse individuals trying to proceed in community. So, at times, we will have to apologize and make amends to our fellow congregants. At times, we will have to pace ourselves and dive deeper in order to remain in relationship and hold each other accountable for what we say and do. It will be hard, and we can do this! In fact, we are well equipped to do this hard, often messy work. In 2011, we adopted our Covenant of Engagement. We also have a Congregational Relations Team,  which is made up of UCE members who have training and experience in communication skills and conflict resolution and are available to help promote healthy relationships within the UCE community, including dealing constructively with conflict.

At General Assembly 2020, an Article II Study Commission was established to review and make recommendations regarding revisions to our 7 Principles. Part of this review will engage with the 8th Principle. As more and more UU churches adopt the 8th Principle at our annual meetings, we provide a grassroots swell of approval for including the 8th Principle in the Commission’s recommendations. I have heard from so many of you about the pride you take in UCE being at the forefront of social justice issues. This is another step – incorporating a call for action and accountability into the fabric of UCE’s policies and processes.  

Watch the newsletter under Team 8th for information regarding learning about, discussing, adopting, and living into 8th Principle. If you have questions about the 8th Principle or want to be involved in Team 8th, please contact me at sfrances@ucevanston.org 

Yours in working toward a diverse multicultural Beloved Community,
Rev. Susan 

From Rev. Susan Frances: January 22, 20212021-01-22T20:02:38+00:00

From Rev. Susan Frances: November 27, 2020

Dear Friends,

Fall is my favorite time of year. The colors on the trees, the smell in the air, the chill of the water, and the movement of the sun all remind me of my connection with the Earth and with the people in my life. For many of us, the fall brings with it traditions of the Thanksgiving holiday, when many of us typically gather with friends and family and express our gratitude for what is in our lives. Due to the pandemic, I know many of us spent Thanksgiving this week living out our usual traditions virtually or making new traditions. This year, I invite you to dig deeper into the story of Thanksgiving and embrace living with both gratitude and lament.  

The Thanksgiving holiday comes as an annual reminder for me to make explicit my overtures of gratitude to the natural world and to my loved ones by sharing the abundance in my life through words and deeds. This year I am embracing my usual traditions of gratitude and combining them with my heart felt laments. This year, when I placed my hand on the bark of the Gingko tree outside my front door and expressed my gratitude for the miracle of being alive, I also expressed my sorrow for the overpopulation of the Earth as well as my deep grief at the deaths of people I know and the countless people I don’t know from COVID-19. This year, when I mailed cards to my family of origin and my chosen family to express my gratitude for them being in my life, I added in words of longing to see them and hug them. This year, when I  reviewed my yearly donations to express my gratitude for my material comfort, I also donated the vacation funds that I did not spend to organizations providing vitally needed housing and food for those displaced from employment by the pandemic. 

For decades, I have leaned into the Thanksgiving holiday as a complex combination of gratitude and lament. Growing up in an area that was predominately white and middle class, my childhood Thanksgiving story was a simple tale involving sharing food and expressing gratitude, and I continue to embrace the gathering of community and sharing of food over the Thanksgiving holiday. As I have learned that the Thanksgiving story is a story of settler colonialism that has been used over the years to advance the erasure of Native lives and history, I have made time to learn about and find ways to support the Wampanoag tribe, who inhabited the land where the Pilgrim ships landed in 1620, and other Native people who are still struggling to survive. This year, I invite you to learn about these additional holidays that encompass both gratitude and lament: 

  • Native American Heritage Day, which was created by the Native American Heritage Day Bill in 2008 and coincides with November being the Native American  Heritage Month, or as it is commonly referred to, American Indian and Alaska Native Heritage Month. The National Congress of American Indians (NCAI) describes  this month as  ”a time to celebrate rich and diverse cultures, traditions, and histories and to acknowledge the important contributions of Native people. Heritage Month is also an opportune time to educate the general public about tribes, to raise a general awareness about the unique challenges Native people have faced both historically and in the present, and the ways in which tribal citizens have worked to conquer these challenges.” The Native American Heritage Day is set annually to be the Friday after Thanksgiving. With this Friday also being called “Black Friday,” when companies strive to bring in enough revenue to improve their profits, some Native Americans believe it is in poor taste for the Native American Heritage Day to be designated on the same day that is characterized by gluttony, greed, and aggressive capitalism.  

  • National Day of Mourning, a demonstration annually organized on Thanksgiving day since 1970 by the United American Indians of New England. This event honors Native ancestors, seeks to educate Americans about democide and racism in US history, and lifts up the struggles of Native people to survive today.

  • Indigenous Peoples Sunrise Ceremony (a/k/a Un-Thanksgiving Day), a demonstration annually organized on Thanksgiving day since 1975 by the International Indian Treaty Council and the American Indian Contemporary Arts. This event honors Native ancestors, commemorates the survival of Indian tribes after European colonization, and speaks out for the rights of contemporary Native people.  

As we celebrate our personal traditions of gratitude and express our personal grief and sorrow this fall, let us practice reaching out beyond our comfort zone to learn about and find ways to support the gratitude and laments expressed by the Native people within our UU community and disbursed across the large continent we call home.  

Grateful to be with you,

Rev. Susan

From Rev. Susan Frances: November 27, 20202020-11-25T15:03:44+00:00

From Rev. Susan Frances: October 23, 2020

Dear Friends, 

I am finally feeling settled into my role as Director of Congregational Life. Part of this role involves shepherding the various aspects of membership. I have found myself reflecting on two aspects of membership this month: hospitality and belonging. 

How do we welcome new individuals, couples, and families into our community? I have been wondering about how we open our hearts and minds to people who may be different from us. I know UCE to be a place that strives to embody radical hospitality. Hospitality, hospitable, hospital, hospice, all come from the same root word, meaning generous, caring, sustaining.  The Rev. Dr. Marilyn Sewell reminds us that radical "means 'out of the ordinary,' 'revolutionary,' even. So what would it mean to receive someone—a stranger—with a presence that was not just polite, but to receive them with revolutionary generosity? 

Over the years, we have been able to practice doing this in person. And, now, with Sunday services and other events being online, we need to think about how we will practice doing this virtually. What does it mean to sit online with someone who we feel uncomfortable with, not because they are being offensive, but because they are actively expressing a need for assistance or a viewpoint with which we disagree? How do we acknowledge our discomfort and also make space for another person's struggles or ideas? How do we express our compassion for someone while maintaining healthy boundaries? We are practicing all of these ways of being radically hospitable online.  

As we continue to be in virtual spaces together, I invite you into generosity as we are introduced to new people. With having so much of our lives online and all of the cyber threats, I know how difficult it is to have the emotional energy to engage with the unfamiliar. Keeping this in mind, I invite you to practice creating an inner emotional and spiritual space large enough to have your needs met as well as the needs of others, knowing that if a person is abusive or threatening, clear boundaries will be established by the moderator of the online space.  

And then, once we have been introduced, how do we get to know each other better? One way is through Proximity Partners. When the church building closed in March, Rev. K Mooney, Adam Gough, Ellie Feddersen, Susan Carlton, Shirley Adams, and Melanie Kitchner organized the members and friends of UCE into groups based on geographic proximity. Some of the groups are still forming and other groups are already active and meeting via Zoom or gathering outside always wearing their masks and being physically distanced. The photos are of a gathering in Manor Park in Glenview, a backyard Pumpkin Party, and the end of a trail walk in LaBaugh Woods with the bags of trash collected along the way. If you would like to connect with your Proximity Partners or join a covenant group, email Adam at agough@ucevanston.org and he will connect you with the group leader for your area.  

Another way to get to know more about each other and the UCE community is to take the Journey Toward Membership class. This is a class that focuses on the exploration of our spiritual lives and what it means to be a member of the intentional and covenantal community at the Unitarian Church of Evanston.  

I invite you to join me in our next Journey Toward Membership class, which will be held in two sessions from 7:00 pm – 8:30 pm on October 27th and 28th. Here are the Zoom links:

Click here to join the Journey Toward Membership Part 1 class on October 27.
Click here to join the Journey Toward Membership Part 2 class on October 28.

I look forward to meeting you during our Sunday morning worship, getting to know you better in our Journey Toward Membership class, or seeing you again at another Zoom meeting.  

In faith, 

Rev. Susan 

From Rev. Susan Frances: October 23, 20202020-10-23T15:14:14+00:00

From Rev. Susan Frances: September 18, 2020

Dear Friends, 

I’m enjoying reconnecting with more and more of you each week. In this time of being physically apart, I have been relying on REALM, our new database and membership directory, in order to find your email addresses and occasionally to look at a photo to make sure my memory of name and face match. So, I am pleased to announce that we are rolling out REALM for our members and pledging friends this week. 

You are invited to attend coffee hour at 12:15 pm this Sunday, September 20, 2020, via Zoom to learn more about REALM from Jessica Meis, our Communications Coordinator, and Adam Gough, our Congregational Life Assistant. They have a virtual scavenger hunt planned! 

In 2016, UCE created its current Long Range plan. Part of this strategic planning included providing an accessible database to build connection, develop leadership, increase engagement, and enable members and friends to share their gifts, talents, and interests with one another. This was an expressed aspiration for the membership, social justice, stewardship, and lifespan learning councils.   

As a result, a volunteer task force was formed to explore several options, leading to the recommendation of REALM. An Endowment grant to purchase the REALM software was drafted by Rev. Eileen Wiviott, Sandra Robinson, and Brian Nielsen and approved by the Endowment Committee and the Board of Trustees in 2018. 

Since September 2019, pledge payment statements are being sent via email through REALM, which has been more reliable, as well as saving staff time and postage. And now, the final information from MEMINFO, our previous and limited database, has finished being migrated to REALM, and the staff and congregational leadership have started to receive training on the various features. In addition to the ability to promote connections within our community, REALM also has four levels of privacy settings, so you can work with Adam or Jessica to make sure you are comfortable with what information is viewable by others 

Be on the lookout for an email that reads “Join our Online Community. Open this email and click the link to set up a password. You may also click here for video tutorials on creating your password and updating your profile. I am hopeful that you will take a moment to attend to your profile. As we continue to meet virtually, having access to email addresses, phone numbers, and a photo will help us continue to connect with each other. 

I know it sounds a bit silly to say that a robust database will lead to a richer community, but because of the communication features in REALM, I actually think it will, especially while we are physically separated. 

Speaking of a richer community, I am feeling fortunate to be able to conduct the pet and animal blessing on October 4, 2020. My mild allergy to animal dander has increased over the years, so I no longer attend worship service when there is an animal blessing. Since we are having virtual services right now, I am able to lead our Pet and Animal Blessing! My family has had many pets, furry and scaly, over the years, so being able to participate in this service is a great joy and one of the gifts I have received in the midst of this challenging pandemic. Please take a moment to send Adam (agough@ucvanston.org) a photo of your pet, you with your pet, or your favorite animal!  

As we navigate this virtual world of new databases and online services together, I am continually reminded that these are tools that assist us in living out our values of caring for and connecting with each other. These tools do not define us, our relationships do. I’m looking forward to continuing to build my relationship with you.

Blessings, 

Rev. Susan 

From Rev. Susan Frances: September 18, 20202020-09-18T15:40:29+00:00

From Rev. Susan Frances: August 14, 2020

Dear Friends, 

I was so pleased that so many of you could join my ordination ceremony via Zoom on August 2, 2020. The accompanying photo is of me in the robe that I bought with the gift certificate to WomenSpirit Vestaments that UCE gave me at the end of my internship and the exquisite stole that Carol Nielsen created as my gift from UCE upon my ordination. Thank you! The other gift from UCE upon my ordination was the wonderful O Love piece by the joint UCE and 2U Choir! Thank you to everyone who sang, to Vickie Hellyer for the rehearsals and for conducting, to Gregory Shifrin for the accompaniment, and to Adam Gough for editing it all together.  

have been thinking about the start of the new church year and how to express the tone and live into the culture shifting challenge set at the 2020 Virtual GA. The speakers I heard and the Actions of Immediate Witness that were passed reflected the calls I hear locally and nationally for a new social and economic order in conjunction with a revitalized democracy.  

So many of our principlesupport this cultural and political transformation: justice, equity, and compassion in human relations – a free and responsible search for truth and meaning – the right of conscience and the use of the democratic process within our congregations and in society at large – the goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all.  

When you have a moment this week, think about which one of these principles resonates most with you right now? Life ebbs and flows and it might be a different principle next week, but this week, what resonates with you. And then think about how you might put that principle into practice. Reach out to me if you have an idea. Now is the time to be creative in our compassion and our action. 

In faith, 

Rev. Susan 

From Rev. Susan Frances: August 14, 20202020-08-13T16:47:19+00:00

Welcome Susan Frances!

On Monday, August 3rd, we will welcome the very newly (less than 24 hours, to be precise) ordained Rev. Susan Frances, as our part-time Congregational Life Director. As you hopefully know by now, Rev. Karen Mooney is departing UCE as she has decided to focus solely on being the Executive Director of UUANI. We are so grateful to Karen for the time she has been with us. Her wisdom, deep spiritual nature, and powerful ministry has been so very needed at this difficulttonavigate time and she will be dearly missed. Thank you, Karen, for your ongoing commitment to our faith. 

We recognize that the decision to hire Susan Frances, our former Ministerial Intern, may have seemed swift and somewhat veiled. As we examine our power structures and how they show up in hiring practices, we are mindful of the harm a lack of transparency can cause. However, while we needed to make the decision quickly, please know that it was well-considered. Karen Mooney’s announced departure came just three months after we had concluded a thorough search for the position, in which we considered several strong candidates including Susan. The timing didn’t work for Susan last year, but it does now and having someone with Susan’s skills and well-established relationships is a windfall for the congregation, especially at this complicated time. 

We are thrilled to have Susan join the staff team. She brings the same insight, compassion, intelligence, and excellent skills to the role of Congregational Life Director as she did as our Intern. Her contract with us is for one year at which time it will be re-considered. The settled senior minister, who will be determined by the spring of this year, will be in dialogue with Susan and the board about the position long-term. 

For now, please join me in welcoming Susan into the role of directing UCE’s focus on social justice and membership.  

Yours in faith and in service, 

Eileen 

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